10 Ways to win your lady love
A feast for her senses or an impromptu shopping outing
Someone wisely remarked, 'Who says you've got to understand women, you've just got to love them!' And yes, he sure was a wise man. But does loving them mean that you get the girl automatically? It sure doesn't! You have to work your way into her heart and for that, you need to really impress her. Let us help you win over your girl!
Chivalry counts: Yes, we girls love to show that we can take care of ourselves but deep inside, we all love to have a chivalrous man taking care of us. There's no girl who wouldn't love it if you open the car door for her, or pull open the seat or carry her shopping bags.
'Eye' care for you: Make eye contact. Every time you're speaking to her, look her directly in her eyes and talk. And yes, smile a lot, not so much that it makes you look like a goofball but enough to make her see that you're a cheerful person.
Ex factor: Don't hide past relationships but don't flaunt them either. There's nothing worse than listening to a man go on and on about his ex-girlfriends. Or on second thoughts, there's nothing worse than finding out that he had many past relationships that he had 'accidentally' forgotten to ever mention to you.
Words worth: When you meet her after a day's work, never forget to ask her how her day was. Showing concern will definitely make you go up a few notches higher in her eyes.
Pda at bay: Touching hands or holding from the waist is fine but anything that goes too much in the realms of PDA is uncalled for, specially if you aren't officially seeing each other.
Take charge: Be confident or like Aamir Khan famously told a nervous Saif Ali Khan in Dil Chahta Hai, 'Be a man!' A man who oozes self-confidence will impress anyone, let alone a girl.
Cook it up! Earn brownie points by cooking her favourite meal. It's not just the way to a man's heart that's through the stomach!
Praise worthy: Any girl would like it if you compliment her. But God save you if the compliment comes out sounding insincere. Praise her dress or her make-up only if you really like it. If not, tell her gently that she's looking nice but maybe it would be better if she tries something else on. Believe us, girls appreciate honesty as much as compliments.
I'am 'interested': Take interest in her hobbies. Let her know that what interests her, is of importance to you as well. Read up on it and encourage her to be active in it. For example, if she likes collecting coins, keep a look out to add to her collection.
Pampered! Flowers are good but spa packages are better!
Chivalry counts: Yes, we girls love to show that we can take care of ourselves but deep inside, we all love to have a chivalrous man taking care of us. There's no girl who wouldn't love it if you open the car door for her, or pull open the seat or carry her shopping bags.
'Eye' care for you: Make eye contact. Every time you're speaking to her, look her directly in her eyes and talk. And yes, smile a lot, not so much that it makes you look like a goofball but enough to make her see that you're a cheerful person.
Ex factor: Don't hide past relationships but don't flaunt them either. There's nothing worse than listening to a man go on and on about his ex-girlfriends. Or on second thoughts, there's nothing worse than finding out that he had many past relationships that he had 'accidentally' forgotten to ever mention to you.
Words worth: When you meet her after a day's work, never forget to ask her how her day was. Showing concern will definitely make you go up a few notches higher in her eyes.
Pda at bay: Touching hands or holding from the waist is fine but anything that goes too much in the realms of PDA is uncalled for, specially if you aren't officially seeing each other.
Take charge: Be confident or like Aamir Khan famously told a nervous Saif Ali Khan in Dil Chahta Hai, 'Be a man!' A man who oozes self-confidence will impress anyone, let alone a girl.
Cook it up! Earn brownie points by cooking her favourite meal. It's not just the way to a man's heart that's through the stomach!
Praise worthy: Any girl would like it if you compliment her. But God save you if the compliment comes out sounding insincere. Praise her dress or her make-up only if you really like it. If not, tell her gently that she's looking nice but maybe it would be better if she tries something else on. Believe us, girls appreciate honesty as much as compliments.
I'am 'interested': Take interest in her hobbies. Let her know that what interests her, is of importance to you as well. Read up on it and encourage her to be active in it. For example, if she likes collecting coins, keep a look out to add to her collection.
Pampered! Flowers are good but spa packages are better!
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