4 annoying things men always do
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Some very annoying guy behaviour (Thinkstock photos/Getty Images)
Surely your guy is great, but there are certain things that he does that get you angry. Here is a list of the annoying things he does and how you can deal with it
He texts during your date
Surely when you see him texting to someone or taking a business call when he's just supposed to be with you can surely get you annoyed. But relationship experts say that this behaviour does not indicate him to be rude. And you don't have to get upset with this behaviour. You can always tell him politely that you thought he'd be spending time with you and not worry about his work when he's out with you.
He says, 'I don't care' when you ask for his opinion
When guys have no clue about what you want, they go mute. So if you ask their opinion about something they don't know about - they resort to 'I don't care'. Make sure that you let him know of your interests. In case he is bored and does not wish to respond - tell him that his opinion is of great importance to you.
He mostly stays quiet when he comes home from work
He's usually tired chasing deadlines during work. When he's back from work, make sure you give him some time to spend on his own. If you immediately start bothering him with going out for dinner or talking to him - chances are he might get irritated with you. Being alone for sometime will give him some time to liven up his spirits and recharge his mood before he gets talking to you.
He gets irritated with you when you take more time to get ready
This is very common. Guys usually take less time to get ready and once they are ready, they get bored waiting for you to get done. Make sure he has something constructive to do once he's ready. Ask him to call up and check whether the reservation at the restaurant is done or ask him to take the dog for a walk while you get ready in the meantime.
He texts during your date
Surely when you see him texting to someone or taking a business call when he's just supposed to be with you can surely get you annoyed. But relationship experts say that this behaviour does not indicate him to be rude. And you don't have to get upset with this behaviour. You can always tell him politely that you thought he'd be spending time with you and not worry about his work when he's out with you.
He says, 'I don't care' when you ask for his opinion
When guys have no clue about what you want, they go mute. So if you ask their opinion about something they don't know about - they resort to 'I don't care'. Make sure that you let him know of your interests. In case he is bored and does not wish to respond - tell him that his opinion is of great importance to you.
He mostly stays quiet when he comes home from work
He's usually tired chasing deadlines during work. When he's back from work, make sure you give him some time to spend on his own. If you immediately start bothering him with going out for dinner or talking to him - chances are he might get irritated with you. Being alone for sometime will give him some time to liven up his spirits and recharge his mood before he gets talking to you.
He gets irritated with you when you take more time to get ready
This is very common. Guys usually take less time to get ready and once they are ready, they get bored waiting for you to get done. Make sure he has something constructive to do once he's ready. Ask him to call up and check whether the reservation at the restaurant is done or ask him to take the dog for a walk while you get ready in the meantime.
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